Conflict rarely arrives as a single dramatic event. More often, it gathers in small silences, repeated disappointments, old loyalties, and stories people tell about who is right and who has been wronged. A family stops talking after an inheritance dispute. Neighbors avoid each other after a school board fight. A congregation splits over leadership. A town becomes two towns, divided by politics, class, race, religion, or a painful local decision. A house divided is not only a